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<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>&lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Gottes Geschichte mit uns Menschen ist natürlich lang und hat unzählige Details. Hier konzentrieren wir uns auf die allerwichtigsten Zusammenhänge. Das Ziel ist, dass die Leute, denen du sie erzählst, sie gut nachvollziehen können und verstehen, was das mit ihrem Leben zu tun hat. Abhängig vom Hintergrund deiner Hörer kann es natürlich große Unterschiede geben: Was wissen Leute bereits? Welche Aspekte sind meistens komplett neu für sie?<br /> <br /> Deshalb stellen wir hier verschiedene Versionen zur Verfügung, die unterschiedliche Aspekte besonders betonen:<br /> <br /> == [[God's Story (five fingers)/de|Gottes Geschichte (fünf Finger)]] ==<br /> * Geeignet für Menschen mit einem „modern-westlichen“ Hintergrund.<br /> <br /> == [[God's Story (first and last sacrifice)/de|Gottes Geschichte (das erste und das letzte Opfer)]] ==<br /> * Setzt voraus, dass Menschen die Schöpfung der Welt und den Sündenfall kennen und mit dem Konzept von Opfern vertraut sind.<br /> * Gut geeignet für Menschen z.B. aus muslimischen Gesellschaften.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:God%27s_Story/20/de&diff=54023 2020-11-27T12:13:42Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Geeignet für Menschen mit einem „modern-westlichen“ Hintergrund.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22393 2018-10-29T06:38:35Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/22/xh&diff=22392 2018-10-29T06:38:35Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22391 2018-10-29T06:38:15Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/17/xh&diff=22390 2018-10-29T06:38:14Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22389 2018-10-29T06:37:26Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/22/xh&diff=22388 2018-10-29T06:37:26Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22387 2018-10-29T06:36:59Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/20/xh&diff=22386 2018-10-29T06:36:59Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22385 2018-10-29T06:35:54Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/17/xh&diff=22384 2018-10-29T06:35:54Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eziqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22383 2018-10-29T06:34:55Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/20/xh&diff=22382 2018-10-29T06:34:55Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Iimpazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.th</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22381 2018-10-29T06:32:59Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/28/xh&diff=22380 2018-10-29T06:32:59Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>; Ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22379 2018-10-29T06:30:24Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/20/xh&diff=22378 2018-10-29T06:30:24Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22377 2018-10-29T06:28:22Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/13/xh&diff=22376 2018-10-29T06:28:22Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' yeyoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=22375 2018-10-29T06:26:55Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando – ''abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye''<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo ''kukuxolela'', yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna ''sikhululeke'' – sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> ''Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi''<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> * Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. <br /> * ''Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo:'' yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> * Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> ''Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo.''<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> * Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela ___ nge ___&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> * ''Impazamo ezivamileyo:'' Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu (siyamqalekisa loo mntu). Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela (&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> :kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto. Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> ''Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:''<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo (abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo, ...)&lt;br /&gt;<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?''&lt;br /&gt;<br /> ''Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/17/xh&diff=22374 2018-10-29T06:26:55Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* Sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> * ''Impazamo eqhelekileyo:'' siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu (kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=21589 2018-10-08T11:15:44Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/20/xh&diff=21588 2018-10-08T11:15:44Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>*Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinyathelo, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=21587 2018-10-08T11:14:56Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/17/xh&diff=21586 2018-10-08T11:14:56Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>* sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethelela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=21585 2018-10-08T11:11:52Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/25/xh&diff=21584 2018-10-08T11:11:52Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumphathela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenoloyiko lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele ngako konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=21583 2018-10-08T11:09:47Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Translations:Forgiving_Step_by_Step/29/xh&diff=21582 2018-10-08T11:09:47Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lamanyathelo okuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana nawe kunye nozokuthandazisa ekwenzeni lamanyathelo!</div>

Testuser https://www.4training.net/index.php?title=Forgiving_Step_by_Step/xh&diff=21581 2018-10-08T11:05:12Z

<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka ukuba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.</div>

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<p>Testuser: </p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha isiqu sam ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;1.1&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>1.1</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Amanyathelo_okuxolela.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Amanyathelo_okuxolela.pdf&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? 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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;&quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala? &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> &quot;Zeziphi iziqalekiso endifuna ukuzilungisa kuqala?<br /> &quot; Ngubani ekufuneka endincedisile kulento? Cacisa uba uzoqhubekeka kanjani!<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Zifundise&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Zifundise ==<br /> ''Which hurts do I want to address first?''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ''Who should support me in this? Clarify specifically how you will continue!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki: * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke? * yibanomfanekis...&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Practice ==<br /> ''Which hurts do I want to address first?''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ''Who should support me in this? Clarify specifically how you will continue!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki: * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke? * yibanomfanekis...&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>Iintluva zokuqaphela uba ubudlelwane obuthile busempilweni na okanye kukho ingxaki:<br /> * Cinga ngalomntu: uyakwazi ukumnqwenelela okuhle ngentliziyo yakho yonke?<br /> * yibanomfanekiso ngqondweni uba udibana naloo mntu esitalatweni: ungaziva njani? Ingaba usenempindezelo entliziyweni yakho?</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...) Ndand...&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Mamela uThixo uphicothe bonke abantu onobudlelwane nabo( abazali, usapho lwakho, abahlobo,abamelwane, abantu ofunda nabo, ootitshala, iinkokheli,isiqu sakho, UThixo,...)<br /> Ndandihlukumezeke njani kwaye ngubani?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Hints for finding out whether the relationship with a certain person is healthy or still broken in some way:<br /> * Think about the person: Can you wish him/her all the best with all your heart?<br /> * Imagine you meet the person on the street: How would you feel? Are you still bearing a grudge?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Practice ==<br /> ''Which hurts do I want to address first?''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ''Who should support me in this? Clarify specifically how you will continue!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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<p>Testuser: Created page with &quot;Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?&quot;</p> <hr /> <div>__NOTOC__&lt;sidebar&gt;sidebar-more&lt;/sidebar&gt;<br /> &lt;languages/&gt;<br /> Uninzi lwethu siye sinqwenele ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nobunonathando, ngelishwa sonke sakhe sava ubuhlungu okanye ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanye abantu. Ibuhlungu loo nto kwaye sonke siphila kulomeko imaxongo. Kanje ngoba izilonda zikwazi ukungapholi zibenobubofu, nentliziyo zethu zibanjalo ukungaxoli uba akukho nto siyitshintshayo. Ixesha lilodwa alikwazi ukuphilisa intliziyo!&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngenxa yoko siye sizihlalele sodwa sakhe amadonga ngelokuzikhusela. singavumeli bani asondele kuthi sibe ngamalolo. Kungenjalo sibenomsindo, singazilibali iziphoso zomnye kwaye sifune Impindezelo.Yonke loo nto izishiya iingcinga zethu zonganyelwe bubuhlungu obenziwe ngu loo mntu kuthi.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ngokusebenzisa ezizixhobo, sizama ukuzikhusela ekuhlukunyezweni, kodwa ekugqibeleni siye sizikhubekise ngakumbi. Kwaye xasikhathazekile asikwazi ukuphatha abanye abantu ngothando- &quot;abantu abahlukunyeziweyo bahlukumeza abanye&quot;<br /> <br /> Eyona ndlela yokuzikhupha kwesosimo sibi singapheliyo &quot;kukuxolela&quot;, yinto enzima kakhulu ke leyo xa uthe weva ubuhlungu obungumangaliso. Kodwa uba asixolelanga sihlala sibophelelekile kulomntu singagqitheli phambili nobomi. Loo nto yenzeka kuba asikwazi ukulibala izinto ezibuhlungu ezisehlelayo qha siye silwe ingcingane. Kodwa uThixo ufuna &quot;sikhululeke&quot;- sikhululeke kwintlungu, sikhululeke kunxunguphalo, sikhululeke ekufuneni impindezelo kwaye sikhululeke kwizinto ezidlulileyo.<br /> <br /> == Kukuthini ukuxolela? ==<br /> Ukuxolela kukukhetha ukuyeka ukugxekana okanye ukukhomba umnwe. Umntu umyekela kuThixo. Endaweni yokumgweba ngokwam ndithemba uThixo Okwayizo ukugweba ngokufaneleyo, kwaye ndiyekele yena akhethe emakwenzeke kulomntu. Ikwathetha ukuba izono zalomntu andizibaleli kuye. Ngamanye amazwi,ngenxa yoba ndiphila namaphumela ezono zalomntu kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ndiye ndixole ndimkhulule loo mntu ndilibale kunye namatyala akhe awenze kum.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Sisigqibo sam ndedwa eso. Asixhomekekanga kolomntu, noba uyaxolisa okanye akaxolisi noba ukhona okanye akekho. Asixhomekekanga kulomntu usikhathazileyo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Nangona ukuxolela kukuhle ukwenzela omnye umntu, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndenzela mna. Xa sixolela siyakhululeka kwingcingane ezimbi ezinje ngokoyika,umsindo okanye unxunguphalo sitsho siphile ngukugqibeleleyo.<br /> <br /> == Amanyathelo okuxolela ==<br /> Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha undlela mfutshane xa sixolela sibone mva uba kusekho isingqala esikhoyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Ngoko ke singabaxolela njani abanye abantu ngokupheleleyo? Lamanyathelo alandelayo ayasinceda ukuze sikwazi ukuxolela.<br /> <br /> &quot;Lamanyathelo mathathu okuqala sizowenza ngocoselelo, uba kuyakwazeka uwenze nomncedi&quot;<br /> === Kwenzeke ntoni? ===<br /> &quot;Cacisa ngokuphangaleleyo nokupheleleyo uba kwenzekeni na. &quot;Yimpazamo eyenzeka rhoqo&quot;: yoba singangeni nzulu sithethe nje.<br /> <br /> === 2. Yintoni endikhathazileyo? Ndaziva njani? ===<br /> *Izimvo zethu zibalulekile kwaye zidlala indima enkulu kubuntu bethu.<br /> * &quot;Impazamo eqhelekileyo&quot;: Siye silitsibe elinyathelo sithethe ngenyani zodwa.<br /> <br /> === Sichaze isono okanye sibize ngegama. ===<br /> * sukuzama ukwenza lula izinto ezingalunganga okanye uzame ukuzithethela. Cacelwa ukuba lomntu ukonileyo ukone njani na ngokwezinto azenzileyo nangazenzanga.<br /> *&quot;Isiphoso esenzeka rhoqo:&quot; siye sizame ukumthethelela loo mntu(kodwa uba asiyibizi njengesono akukho kuxolela).<br /> <br /> &quot;Ngoku siya emthandazweni sizise yonke into kuThixo&quot;.<br /> === 4. Zisa amatyala okoniwa kuThixo. ===<br /> *Siya kuThixo ongumgwebi sizise amatyala ngakulomntu usonileyo. Siye siyichaze yonke imbilini yethu kuye kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokwalamanqanaba angaphezulu.<br /> *&quot;impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; siye siligqithe elinqanaba, okanye sifihle imizwa yethu kuThixo.<br /> <br /> === 5. Thetha phandle uxolo ===<br /> * Ngoku sithetha phandle uxolo (&quot;Ndiyaxolela_nge_&quot;) kwaye ndenza isigqibo sonikezela sonke esosiganeko ezandleni zikaThixo.<br /> *&quot;Impazamo ezivamileyo:&quot; Siye simxelele uThixo into makayenze ngalomntu(siyamqalekisa loo mntu).Okanye sithi siyafuna uxolela(&quot;Nkosi, ndincede ndixolele&quot;) kodwa singasenzi ngokwenene isigqibo.<br /> <br /> == Ukuzisa amatyala okuhlukumezeka kuThixo ==<br /> UThixo ngumgwebi kwaye sinelungelo lokuzisa onke amatyala kuye. Singaqiniseka uba uzokugweba kakuhle kwaye uzakugweba wonke umntu-ayingomsebenzi wethu lowo. Asinalungelo lokubuyekeza abanye ngobubi okanye siziphindezele kubo.&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Ngohlobo esenza ngalo emhlabeni lokuzisa amatyala kumantyi, singenza ngolohlobo nakuThixo ukumpahthela amatyala. Akufuneki ukuba sibenexhala lokuba siyamona uThixo, singakwazi ukumchazela yonke into simbonise nendlela esiziva ngayo ngukupheleleyo. Xa sigqibile, siziyeke zonke izityholo futhi sinikezele konke ezandleni zikaThixo. Siyeke ukuqhubekeka sigweba omnye umntu ngokwethu, kodwa siwuyekele kuThixo yedwa umgwebo.<br /> <br /> == Ezinye iintluva ==<br /> ;Ukusebenzisa uncedo olusuka kumncedisi.<br /> : kunzima ukulandela lemiqathango/ indlela yokuxolela uwedwa ungashiyi nto.<br /> Khangela umntu ozokuncedisana kunye nozothandaza nawe ekwenzeni lamanqanaba okuxolela!<br /> ; isono sethu<br /> : Xa sikhathazekile, siye singaqondanga sihlukumeze abanye abantu senze isono kubo. Kubalulekile uba singenzi ngathi asiboni kufuneka siguquke sicele uxolo. Kufuneka siphicothe zonke ingcinga zethu ngoku ngokukhawuleza!<br /> ; ukuzixolela<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinomsindo kuthi okanye siyazisola ngento esiyenzileyo. UThixo usinika indlela yokuba sizixolele kwaye asenze msulwa ngonyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Ukuzixolela kuthetha ukwamkela isipho sakhe ndisisebenzise kum.<br /> ; ukuxolela uThixo<br /> : ngamanye amaxesha sinengcinga ezimbi ngoThixo okanye sinomsindo ngento ayenzileyo. UThixo akenzi ziphoso, ngenxa yaloo nto asikwazi ukumxolela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyiyeke imisindo yethu nengcinga ezimbi ngaye.<br /> ; Ukuhlala kuxolelo<br /> : ukuba iingcingane ziye zaphinda zafika, zikhumbuze ukuba uye wakhetha ukuxolela emva koko zizogqitha ezongcingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakwazi ukwenzeka uba kukho ukukhathazeka okunzulu okanye izinto ubungazicinganga ekuqaleni. Kwezomeko ke singaphinde siqalise ukuxolela kwakhona ukwenzela uba siphile emphefumlweni.<br /> == Ukuziphicotha ==<br /> &quot; Thatha imizuzu emibini ubuze lemibuzo kuThixo wakugqiba ubhale phantsi iimpendulo:&quot;<br /> <br /> '''Thixo, ngubani ekufuneka ndimxolele?'''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> Listen to God and go through your relationships (parents, family, relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues, classmates, teachers, leaders, yourself, God, ...)&lt;br/&gt;<br /> How was I hurt and by whom?<br /> <br /> &lt;div style=&quot;background-color: #f9f9f9; border: 1px solid black; padding:5px&quot;&gt;<br /> Hints for finding out whether the relationship with a certain person is healthy or still broken in some way:<br /> * Think about the person: Can you wish him/her all the best with all your heart?<br /> * Imagine you meet the person on the street: How would you feel? Are you still bearing a grudge?<br /> &lt;/div&gt;<br /> <br /> == Practice ==<br /> ''Which hurts do I want to address first?''&lt;br/&gt;<br /> ''Who should support me in this? Clarify specifically how you will continue!''<br /> <br /> {{PdfDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.pdf}}<br /> {{OdtDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.odt}}<br /> {{DocDownload|Forgiving_Step_by_Step.doc}}<br /> {{Version|1.1}}</div>

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